Question: I was speaking to this guy for about 4 months. In either case, you don't have be confused. © 2020 Condé Nast. Looks like the site is more popular than we thought! Leading media outlets such as TIME Magazine, The Chicago Tribune, The Hill, MSN, WebMD, and 100+ more rely on SocialPro’s expertise in psychology. You don't want to fall too hard too fast and end up getting hurt. she tell lies too. Two days ago, he stopped texting me. He really, really likes you. I have two daughters as well. Or he says a few words like, "Hey, nice date," and drops off soon after. Hello! When they're meant for us they stay and make an effort. We now live in a world of instant gratification, so if the guy doesn't feel that rush of excitement when he's around you, or if he feels you aren't the perfect match for him right away, he's likely to just keep moving. The thing is, I only talk real business in my group chat (school stuff), so I don’t always have any topics to chat with him. This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. Asking them for help is a great way to find out what kind of friend they will be. At school i’m not really the popular kid i more of a quiet and low-key kind of girl. A man has to want to be with you out of free will to be a reliable partner. I feel stuck. If he doesn't contact you he could have moved on to a different situation (as long as he hasn't been sick or in a tough spot, etc.). The most important thing about friendships is knowing how to end them and walk away, and just be grateful for whatever WAS good. WE HAVE NO SPARK ANYMORE. I love him so very much. Does your ex still contact you? You have to fight hard to earn back your ability to trust again. Men and women change their minds all the time about pursuing a relationship with someone. For some reason, Facebook is easy, but replying to real people with real love and care for me just takes so much energy.” — Alice H. “I’m sorry, but I’m really just not up to talking right now. But you have to go on. Because I love you.” — Ashley E. “It’s nothing you have done, but right now even a conversation is too much for me. I hope and wish you and your daughter very best in life. Question: After breaking up with my ex, we continued texting for a year. Thank you for not giving up on me.” — Sonya H. “I am to fuzzy-minded to talk to you right now. Answer: In my opinion, if you are exclusive you should be on calling terms with each other, not just texting. Generally the chemistry is not there if a man is not answering. It's your chance to do literally WHATEVER you want with your time. Start improving your confidence, your conversation skills, or your ability to bond - in less than an hour. Be patient with me.” — Ashly D. “I love you, but it just takes too much energy to text, and I’m feeling so frail and so much like a disappointment that I could crumble at any second and don’t want to burden you. I've always thought having a little bit of a guard up at the beginning of a relationship was a good thing. What does this mean? In most cases, ghosting comes down to the "ghoster's" immaturity and lack of consideration for others.